I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months but I am going for my NYSC soon - Man seeks advice

- A Nigerian man going for his National Youth Service soon is asking for advice on what to do about his relationship

- He found the woman of hi dreams but he doesn’t believe he is ready for marriage

- The man wants to complete his service and get a comfortable job before getting married

A Nigerian man who had his life planned out is in a love dilemma after he met the woman of his dreams. The young man who is a NAIJ.com reader explained that he always planned to marry after he gets his life on track.

The 24-year-old man who is about to go for his National Youth Service explained that he is thinking about marrying the woman he started dating seven months ago. He also explained that he always believed he would marry after he gets a comfortable job.

He asked Nigerians to advise him on what to do because he doesn’t want to waste his 26-year-old girlfriend’s time when she could marry someone who is ready.

According to the NAIJ.com reader, the lady who is a 200level student believes that marriage is a plan for the future.

Read his story below:

"I'm in a relationship and about to go for my youth service.The girl I'm dating now is actually good with all nature of a specially created woman by GOD. Our relationship is 7 months and is getting even stronger. I will like to marry this girl but I will be among the next set that will go for service. Throughout my days in school I stayed out relationships which I decided with the good intention to marry any girl I found very good after my youth service but she came before that youth service and a good job at least.

But this girl is wonderful she never found fault in those, she is a christian to the core. She is supportive and believes in my future. She said her love is for the future and not now. She also said I am her dream man in all ramification and believe me she is the same with me. She has been turning down so many rich men with marriage proposals which some of the men call me and accuse me of using charm to hold her.

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She is in her 200 level now, age 26 and I'm 24. Is it right to think of marriage now that I'm barely doing anything. I don't want her to feel like I'm wasting her time but going to service is my next level in life. I don't want to date her for dating sake. What should I do？

Should I work towards marriage"

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